Long distance can be said to be the number one killer of relationships. Many relationships are defeated by the distance. But in fact, long-distance relationships are not that scary. It’s just that most long-distance couples don’t know how to maintain a relationship and eventually break up.
So how can a long-distance relationship maintain a relationship in order to overcome the influence of distance?
1. Have expectations in your heart
Having expectations in your heart always makes people happy both physically and mentally.
Even if you can’t meet immediately, you can still book tickets for the meeting in advance and let your heart have expectations. This feeling will definitely be better than not knowing when to meet. If you are too far apart to meet frequently, you can still look forward to getting together with your beloved on important days.
2. Face dates with a relaxed attitude
When long-distance lovers get together, they often choose to travel or date, but this will create tension. In fact, even if we haven't seen each other for a long time, there is no need to make this meeting too grand.
You can also stay at home to do housework or handle work during this meeting. Don't put too much pressure on getting together just because each meeting is too rare. This is unrealistic and will affect the emotions of the two of you.
3. Communicate more and share more
Parties in long-distance relationships should usually use instant messaging tools to communicate and share more each other's lives. For example, if you want to see the other person’s recent changes, you can use WeChat video; if you want to listen to the other person’s voice, you can pick up your phone and open WeChat voice at any time, and chat about everything that happened around you, so that the other person can understand you. Life dynamics, so as not to create a gap between the two parties.
4. Meet often and regularly
An integral part of maintaining a long-distance relationship is to meet frequently and maintain a relationship. Otherwise, people in long-distance relationships can easily forget their relationship status. You can choose to meet during a long holiday, and the time between two people should not be too long.
5. The other party has enough trust
Mutual trust in each other is very important in a long-distance relationship. Since you can't see each other, you don't know who the other person is seeing throughout the day. Therefore, you must maintain 100% trust in the other party so that you will not doubt the other party when you cannot see the other party.
When you go out to play, it is best to report it in advance, so that when the other party does not receive a reply, they will not think about it.
Under normal circumstances, sending more thoughtful little gifts, meeting regularly, and trying to be as consistent as possible psychologically can make a long-distance relationship more stable and long-lasting, but these methods are not a long-term solution, so I still don’t recommend long-term long-distance relationships. It’s best to find a way to return the long-distance relationship.It is more reliable to get together as soon as possible.
